Partnering With Parents: Family Resourcing
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"Parents have the most influence in their child's faith."
"Yes, you've told us that."
"Can you help us?"
"Uh, sorry, I need to plan next week's dodgeball event."
OK, that's pretty harsh, but if you're honest, you've had a similar discussion with a parent at some time. I have. Perhaps in your ministry you've hit this wall, as I did. You're called to develop and grow and deepen the faith of the children and teens in your church, and to accomplish that you've got a jam-packed calendar of biblically and theologically sound lessons, mission trips, retreats, and amazing games and events nights. You are busy planning, leading, driving, coffeeing...doing everything you can to accomplish your goal to grow your students' faith. And as you read through an article or book that suggests that your work is minimal compared to the influence that parents have, one of two things happen. Either you freak out at your parents for not doing their job and you work harder and become increasingly discouraged or burnt out, or you become relieved that it's not your fault all the seniors that were active in your youth group last year are no longer attending church because the parents didn't do their job. Either way, the question needs to be asked: are we really accomplishing our goal to deepen the faith of our teens through our programs and events?
It's time we work less on trying to get parents on board with what we're doing in youth ministry and get on board with what parents are doing at home.
Don't misunderstand—the programs and events are good and important. But a perfectly executed lesson as a result of hours of preparation simply does not have the impact that a 10 minute faith conversation between parent and child has. Is it possible that our time might be better spent encouraging and resourcing parents?
That sounds great, but where to begin?
John Roberto, president of Lifelong Faith, describes the five core family faith practices in which churches can assist households. which is a great place to being thinking about how we can grow a "family resourcing" ministry.
I encourage you to consider reallocating your time and energy that you put into programming, and consider resourcing your families as a vital part of your ministry.
In what ways do you encourage and resource your families to promote these five faith practices?
How might your ministry look if this became a component of your ministry strategy?
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