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  As someone who became a Christian in the CRC at the age of 17,and who later made profession of faith in this denomination I find that those who advocate we throw out terms like Classis because they're too difficult for outsiders to grasp are underestimating our intelligence.  Like this debate about replacing Merry Christmas with Happy Holidays supposedly because it offends immigrants is hooey. Most of the time, it isn't immigrants who want this but unbelievers whose ancestors have been here for generations, and who grew up in the church but later gave up the faith.  They're the ones who want to throw everything associated with  Christianity out the window, not immigrants who'd rather we use our own holiday terms because they feel more free to use theirs then.

Sometimes I have a feeling that some people in the CRC are embarrassed about the cultural origins of the denomination and project that onto outsiders.  If you have a problem with your cultural origins, that is your problem not ours.

 

 

"What was Thabo doing out at a club on a back-to-back??"  Replace Thabo with a woman's name,in a report that she was raped, and all too often the question is the same.  What was she doing at a club at that time of night?  Far from me to trivialize the plight of African Americans, but in many respects their plight and women's problems are similar.  And maybe the plight of African American women is even worse, because not only are they women, they are also women of color.  

My mom read Michelle Obama's book recently, and she was struck by how hard it is for people of color like Michelle Obama and her husband to make a good life for themselves and their kids, and they are the successful ones.  I'm Caucasian and I live in Canada, so I have no idea as to what it's like to be at the receiving end of that, so I'm not going to pretend I know.  But I can use empathy.  And do like him. LISTEN.

 

I have no opinion, but I don't see what is the urgency in changing that sort of name just for the sake of changing.  There are more important issues to address than that, and it strikes me as a Major in Minors.  If you're going to reform, why not reform the tendency to pass judgment on victims of abuse, as though they were to blame for what happened to them, for example.  

 No, I'm not involved in tha ministry although I do read  stories once in awhile and If I run across something that's relevant elsewhere I'll bring it to the attention of the administrators.  I'm a Regional Advocate for Disability Concerns, and I think that if you're sensitive to the needs of people with disabilities you can be sensitive to the needs of people who have been abused.  It's not that big.of a stretch of the imagination, but I find that getting actively involved in Safe church would require more energy than I can spare.

 No, I'm well aware that not all people with schizophrenia are not as self-aware as I am.  I believe that God allowed me to have the illness severely enough to know what I'm talking about, yet light enough to be able to speak on behalf of those who can't speak for themselves.  When I subscribed to Schizophrenia Digest as it was known then, one of the columnists and regular contributors, a professor of Psychology whose own brother had schizophrenia often wrote about anosognosia, a term borrowed from neurology to describe patients who had had a stroke but were not aware that the stroke had impaired their cognitive abilities.  The term in psychiatry is applied to patients who do not know because of their illness that the voices they hear or other symptoms they have are caused by their illness.  Such is the extent to which a brain can go awry when it's affected by schizophrenia.  

Of course, when people do realize that they're ill, they don't take their meds, and the cumulative effect of psychoses on the brain is deleterious.  Very often those patients will have paranoia among their symptoms, which means they think that people want to harm them, and they believe the meds are intended to poison them, so after a stay in the psychiatric ward, they will agree to take their meds but not bother to refill the prescription or stop taking the pills once they're back home.  That's why long-injectables are prescribed in such cases.  The patients receive injections of anti-psychotics that are released gradually in their body over a month's duration.  But even that is not fool-proof because the patient may not show up for appointments to receive the injections.

 My initial reaction to this post was that we're not just supposed to bring our grocery lists to God and expect Him to deliver on each item.  On the other hand, Jesus did say that all the hairs on our head are numbered and not one of them falls without the Father's will, so He does want to know our petitions and wishes.

Praying is a way of keeping the lines of communication open between the Lord and us.  Personally, I prefer to pray in writing because I find it keeps me focussed, and I don't tend to repeat the same requests over and over as I did when I prayed out loud.  If anything, I am less distracted when I write out my prayers with my eyes open--try to write with your eyes closed and see where that gets you--than I was when I prayed out loud with my eyes closed supposedly to avoid distractions.

There are things we pray for like world hunger that I believe God left for us to take care of, and if we don't like the answers or lack thereof, it's because we're failing our assignment as the universal Church.  God entrusted us to take care of His creation and that, in my opinion, includes providing food for EVERYBODY, so maybe we need to reexamine OUR performance before blaming God for not answering our prayers.

As far as cancer goes, I don't know.  He hasn't cured my schizophrenia either, but then I wasn't really anxious for Him to do so.  And Christ did not heal all the  sick people in Israel while He was on earth.  

But yesterday, I wanted to buy a Thank You gift for some neighbors of mine, who had helped me out of a predicament, and I didn't know what to get them that they would both enjoy, so I prayed that He would guide me and He did.  I bought them a kilo of African coffee beans.

  It would probably not hurt because even among people living with mental illnesses there are varying degrees of severity.  For example, some people who have schizophrenia are able to work full time and juggle family life as well while others cannot function alone, and I'm somewhere in between.  But I wouldn't want this spectrum thing to be an excuse for trivializing what people with severe forms of mental illnesses endure as I discussed in my blog titled,"On Chronically Normal People."

Glad to hear it,Terry.  Helping people like Jack and others with mental illnesses gives meaning to what I endured back then.  Now that I'm no longer in pain I can see what they're going through with perspective.  It seems that my post has helped even people who don't have a mental illness.  Which is great too.

Glad to hear it,Terry.  Helping people like Jack and others with mental illnesses gives meaning to what I endured back then.  Now that I'm no longer in pain I can see what they're going through with perspective.  It seems that my post has helped even people who don't have a mental illness.  Which is great too.

 Glad that you learned much, and looking forward to renewed contact.  Our new pastor and his family are moving in this week, so we'll have a more normal congregational life starting in a few weeks.  In the meantime, if I didn't tell you already, I'm working on the transcript of an oral presentation on preventing Alzheimer's Disease, and it seems it can be done through dietary changes.  

 After Coming across a video of Professor Jordan B. Peterson, a clinical psychologist and now tenured at the University of Toronto after having taught at Harvard, I bought his book 12 Rules for Life : An Antidote to Chaos.  I'm in Chapter 3 now, and although he does not attend a church, I'm quite convinced that the man believes in Christ, though to what extent is unclear.  Anyway, the man is persecuted by the left; the politically correct, by what he calls the Social Justice Warriors (who don't necessarily fight the Biblical version of social justice, by the way); the LGBTQ movement, feminists and so on.   If you start looking you wil find TONS of his videos on YouTube.  He makes sense.  I recommend it.  BTW, I found a hardcover edition at Chapters with 40%off the retail price.

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