10 Ways to Connect With the Girls In Your Church


Connecting with girls during COVID may not be easy, but it’s never mattered more! Pre-COVID, our girls knew the heartache of FOMO (Fear of Missing Out), loneliness, rejection, and girl drama. In COVID, 79% of girls report that they feel more lonely or isolated now than they did before.*

Whether your Sunday School, GEMS Club, or other small group is meeting shoulder to shoulder, through a screen, or small group has been canceled, connection has not been canceled. Your girls need you to connect so they feel seen, known, and loved. Here are 10 small ways to make a big difference in the life of a girl.

  1. Mail her a postcard.
  2. Pick up the phone.
  3. Add a sticky-note of encouragement or an I Believe in You Card (free download here) to her take-home sheet.
  4. Make a driveway visit.
  5. Send her a playlist.
  6. Write her name in an acrostic with all the good things you see in her.
  7. Send her a Bible verse personalized with her name in it.
  8. Order her a Sparkle (grades 1-3) or SHINE brightly (grades 4-6) magazine. Use the CODE: CRC20 by December 1 to receive 20% off each subscription.
  9. Ask, “What is your 2nd favorite snack or school subject?” Need more engaging questions? Download free Convo Cards here.
  10. Form a heart with your hands and say, “You are LOVED.”

Keep connecting. Our girls matter. So do YOU!

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