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Buzz words come and go, and we may love them or hate them. One significant buzz word we’ve heard in recent years is “trauma-informed”. Trauma-informed medical care. Trauma-informed education. Trauma-informed spiritual care. Indeed, as a board-certified chaplain I was asked in my certifying interview what trauma-informed spiritual care looked like. But do churches need to be trauma-informed? Trauma-informed ministry? Trauma-informed gospel?
The ACE (Adverse Childhood Experiences) is a tool used to assess the quantity of traumatic events an individual has been exposed to during childhood. Such events include:
According to the CDC, three in four high school students report experiencing one or more ACEs, and one in five have experienced four or more. With today’s youth the most prevalent scores in the ACE are related to emotional and physical abuse, living in a household affected by poor mental health and/or substance abuse.
And this does not address the trauma and violence that is increasingly being reported within our own church communities. As a chaplain to 80-90 year-old men and women at the end of their lives, it is not uncommon to receive stories of experienced abuse at the hands of a church leader. Additionally, LGBTQ+ Christians have reported the intense hurt felt from the church’s response to their sexual identities.
Our Western society is saturated with violent words, violent gestures, violent actions. It is no surprise that so many are affected by trauma. Overlay this reality with the synod’s recent approval of Resonate’s 10-year strategic plan for Church Planting, which has tossed around the goal of planting 1000 churches in 10 years. I commend this ambitious goal for our denomination. We need a shot in the arm, a wake-up call if you will. The first five years prioritize:
The report laments how churches have failed to prioritize discipleship and leadership development. In reviewing the strategic plan, I see many words which are administrative in nature: codify, implement, resourcing, principles, and metrics. Before we administrate past practices into the present, it would be prudent to ask some trauma-informed questions such as, “How did we not authentically see the person in the past” “What in our former methods didn’t meet the innate needs of those being ministered to?” “Are we seeing the person and not just the lack of development?”
I commend the strategic plan’s belief in the priesthood of all believers, that we all share in the mission of the church together. However, our gaze must not be only on our priesthood. If we are to be enfolding new believers into that priesthood, we should also consider how they will be donning the mantle of priesthood? Journeying with the Holy Spirit is never the same for each person. Largely this journey depends on a person’s mantle of life experiences, the hurt or shame, their traumas. There must be room to ask hard questions about God, not giving prescribed answers in the catechism, space to wrestle with one’s faith. The priestly vestments are not one-size-fits-all.
I also commend the strategic plan’s suggestion of Barnabas Advocates. These are local individuals in place to bridge the gap between a planting congregation and a new congregation of differing race or ethnicities. Due to differing thought patterns, rituals, and values, cultures play a large role in miscommunication between people. However, equally separating are the effects of trauma. Trauma changes how you think, how you view the world. Just as those of minority ethnicity need to feel that there is a safe place for them to express themselves, those who have experienced trauma need to know that church will be a safe place for them to heal and to grow. Where there is safety there is growth.
If the CRCNA feels that God is calling them to endeavor into a season of intense ministry to the world outside the walls of our churches, we will need to consider that the world is largely informed by trauma. We need to be trauma-informed.
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Tricia, thank you for sharing your perspective on this essential topic! It is so important to address the reality of abuse that people have experienced from both outside the church and within it. This is a great challenge for us to be aware of the full body of experiences that people bring with them to their faith and engagement with communities of faith.
Thank you Tricia for highlighting the importance of being trauma-informed as we covenant together towards a shared vision for church planting and gospel saturation. This will indeed be critical for our churches, classes, and agencies as we collaborate together on this plan.
Thanks, Tricia, for sharing these insights on trauma. Understanding ACE's was a heartbreaking but very helpful eye opener for me about 10 years ago when it first came to my attention! The story behind how ACEs became a part of the conversation is amazing, yet very heart breaking as trauma was denigrated and dismissed as false memories by the mental health community for decades in the 90s and 2000's. It seems it is mostly in the last 10 years that awareness of ACE's has got some traction and still only a minority of people have even heard of this tool/evaluation when I bring it up.
Church hurt / trauma is another significant factor for the growing number of "dones" that were deeply wounded, often by leaders in institutional churches. Many have left the institutional churches and are looking for community but struggling to find it! They are looking for a different expression than what has often become a church structure of power dynamics.
Bev and Tricia, these are both such great points. It's so important to recognize how people's past experiences shape how they are able to interact with both God and God's people in the church. Finally, I also think the the church hurt / trauma is yet another hugely significant part of understanding how people interact with church. As a young adult, I see so many of my peers who have been harmed (or who have seen others harmed) by the church and then told that the harm they experienced isn't or wasn't legitimate. And, building further on this theme, there is so little available in churches for young (unmarried) adults, many of whom grew up in church but experienced hurt or harm, and would love to find church communities but there simply aren't any churches that are willing and able to work through the hurt that these people have experienced. Do either of you have any ideas or suggestions for how churches can address these issues in our current North American context?
On church trauma specifically, it is often one on one conversations / counseling / coaching with someone who has experienced church harm/hurt, spiritual abuse in some way. There are conferences that address this more extensively. Julie Roys has facilitated an annual conference for the last several years. Restore Conference 2026 — Restoration: Beauty From Ashes
On the younger generations, it seems (partly based on my kiddos ages 20, 22 & 26) they are looking to be more equally engaged instead of a unilateral top down teaching / preaching style of gathering. They have no interest in authoritarian type of structures / hierarchy.
On church trauma specifically, it is often one on one conversations / counseling / coaching with someone who has experienced church harm/hurt, spiritual abuse in some way. There are conferences that address this more extensively. Julie Roys has facilitated an annual conference for the last several years. Restore Conference 2026 — Restoration: Beauty From Ashes
On the younger generations, it seems (partly based on my kiddos ages 20, 22 & 26) they are looking to be more equally engaged instead of a unilateral top down teaching / preaching style of gathering. They have no interest in authoritarian type of structures / hierarchy.
I love 1 Cor 14 so much because it is actually a very, very inclusive chapter where Paul gives permission multiple times and invites EVERYONE / EACH ONE / ANYONE to be engaged and encouraged with the others. It seems to me that is what people who have left the inst. church for various reasons are looking for, there is a hunger to be more engaged in the spiritual expression of God's truths & testimonies. Spirit and Truth!
I call it the "prophetic table". A safe place and space where everyone can share, test, discuss, ask questions, expand on Scripture /spiritual matters together. It is beautiful and powerful. In my experience it is almost always in a more informal organic type gathering (often from multiple church backgrounds / denoms that adds rich dimensions).
Everyone is open to the Holy Spirit leading through the Word & prayer. I experienced it a bit earlier this evening: A group of about 7-12 of us are meeting on Monday evenings to go through Ephesians. Everyone is given space to share (if they choose to do so), what the Holy Spirit has been showing them through a passage for the last week. Tonight the focus was Ephesians 2. One person asked questions about Paul's audience, Jews? Gentiles? One brought up the grace in 2:8, one shared on the unity in v11-22, these brought up other insights and thoughts shared by others for further discussion and encouragement.
I shared on how Paul uses a lot of past tense for what we once WERE! and then uses present tense BUT NOW for who we are now in Christ! Our identity in CHRIST because of Who He is and what He has done is something I am deeply passionate about, that God's family/children/saints know who we are in Christ! That is an entire discussion on its own... here's some of what I have compiled... You Are Precious and Priceless | CRC Network
There might be a few hurdles for something like this to happen (ie various views on 1 Cor 14:34-35 as well as what is "prophetic") but it also can be really simple.
Just some thoughts on possible ways 1 Cor 14 can become more of a reality.
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