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As I lay in bed I was thinking about a discussion I had with a sister in the faith as she drove me home earlier tonight. She was saying that she loved an Asian grocery store because things were cheaper there than in regular grocery stores, and I had mentioned it as a place I didn’t like because of the smell. This started me thinking that paradoxically people who are poor often have to shop in stores that people who are better off financially find too expensive.
For example, the wife of our former pastor used to shop at Walmart’s for their groceries. Well I can’t shop there most of the time because I have to get the stuff home afterward, and that means lugging it on public transit, so I can’t get anything heavy or a whole order. To do that I have to go to a store that does home deliveries, and most discount stores like Walmart’s or Maxi’s don’t offer that option. You need a car to shop at Walmart’s.
Same with lodging. Many people on Welfare or other fixed incomes often find themselves renting apartments they can’t afford because the ones they could afford are not available. Or they are too far out of town to be accessible. Able-bodied people on Welfare in Québec are threatened with having their $650/month cheque cut by $200/month if they don’t participate in job-hunting activities or other projects that would prepare them for the work market. But even trying to look for work on $650/month poses a challenge, and I don’t know anyone who’s figured out a way to make it work, even in Montreal, which is considered to be one of few cities in Canada where the cost of living is affordable.
Try to figure out a budget where people can have a roof over their heads; heating and lighting; phones for contacting employers; transportation (usually through public transit, which is $83.00/month for adults); money for decent clothes, food, and I’m probably forgetting some items. I left out having a personal computer or internet access because those job-hunters could probably NOT AFFORD either of those items and would have to look up jobs or send resumés from places like Employment Canada — if that exists. I haven’t looked for a job in ages, and I guess it shows — or wherever else it might be in the States.
There are many reasons people might opt out of job-hunting opportunities. A major one would be that they feel ill-equipped to start pounding the pavement in search of employment. Not all kids grow up in nurturing environments, and some end up as adults being barely able to write their own names and needing to take their shoes and socks off to count to 20. What sort of paid work would they find assuming that someone would want to hire them in the first place? In such circumstances how would cutting $200 off their cheque help in any way? Those people don’t need job-hunting skills; they need to go back to school.
I guess that a lot of poor people have to share their living space with cockroaches and rodents or freeze in winter because of poorly insulated buildings.
I have a condo thanks to my parents and the Lord who made it possible for them to afford buying my sister’s condo for me and pay it in full, so I wouldn’t have to worry about a mortgage. If it weren’t for my mom I would be in much direr straits than I am now, and I probably don’t thank God for her often enough although I am grateful. She’s a sweet old lady. At 90 she’s earned being called old even though mentally she’s younger than many people who are younger than she is chronologically.
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Since then the cost of a monthly pass for public transit has increased to $88,50. And my mom is 94.
I am sorry Michele, I will pray for for your mom! It is sad in a society that is so rich, we allow people to live this way! The first church after Christ came use to share!
Thanks, but I think you misunderstood what I wrote. My mom is still recovering from a sinusitis, so she gets tired easily--and she's 94 now by the way--but financially she's okay. I'm the one living on social assistance, and she can afford to help me, so don't worry about her.
Thanks, but I think you misunderstood what I wrote. My mom is still recovering from a sinusitis, so she gets tired easily--and she's 94 now by the way--but financially she's okay. I'm the one living on social assistance, and she can afford to help me, so don't worry about her.
Sorry for the mistake Michele, I was just trying to give you support in your struggles. Most people ignore these posts and would rather talk about church order or other programs that are remotely related to the Gospel. I believe in living the Gospel by taking action one person at a time.
I am disabled too and suffer every day, so I depend totally on the Lords grace. It makes you want to help those who are suffering too.
@Ken Libolt As I was re-reading this blog I also read the comments, and realized I didn't respond to your last one. I appreciate the support. Thank you. WAnting to help others is why I agreed to become a Regional Advocate initially. I doN't serve in that capacity anymore, but I haven't really found a way to replace it either. The Director of Disability Concerns for the CRCNA had talked about my becoming a Volunteer Editor, but she never asked me to edit anything. Not that it would contribute anything to my income since it's volunteer work anyway.
Since then my mom passed away, and we still have to get our hands on the inheritance, but there was a lot of leg work involved in settling the estate, but that is finally over now. Our problem is that although my mom stipulated in her will that there be four people to sign paperwork, she had also stipulated that AT LEAST three of the four be present to sign documents, but the financial institution is always insisting on all four being present, which makes things very complicated logistically.
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