Michele Gyselinck
I am a 62-year-old woman. I was born in Montreal and grew up in a western suburb of the city. I became a confessing member of the local CRC, First Christian Reformed Church of Monreal on May 15, 1977, so this year will be the 43rd anniversary of that event. I have two B.A.s, one in LInguistics and the other in English Studies with a Major in Professional Writing in English. I developed schizophrenia around the age of 28.
Posted in: National Disability Voter Registration Week
Some time ago I watched an episode of Last Week Tonight with John Oliver in which he talked about voting and how some states make it extremely difficult for black people to vote with the Voter I.D. laws they have passed in which those poor people NEVER have the proper documents to be eligible to vote, so I'd suggest that in some states being black is a disability that the state government makes no attempt to help. If anything they deliberately complicate the voting process for coloured people. You might want to watch this episode just to see the hypocrisy of the politicians who pass this sort of legislation. You can find it on Youtube.
Posted in: National Disability Voter Registration Week
Apparently, it already has. According to John Oliver, not only do black people have to contend with bureaucratic obfuscation but with logistics as well. Some of those offices are not opened every day of a business week but only a few hours in a given month, so if you don't have the right papers at the right time, you can miss several opportunities to vote in primary elections thereby being effectively denied your right to vote. In the mean time some of the politicians who supported this sort of legislation have been seen on TV voting in someone else's place for or against a bill in the state's congress. We're supposed to support justice, so if there is such a law in the books of your state, then you should work to have it repealed. If you don't know, find out. It might not help black voters this time around since governments are NOT known to turn on a dime, especially if they adopted such a racist policy in the first place, but at least they may be able to vote without hindrance next time.
Posted in: Who Are We Excluding From Worship?
I watch a service by the People's Church in Toronto when I can't make it to church, and when I see this service on TV, the congregation is NEVER SINGING but only members of the praise team. If we use the approach that worship is only what's going on up front, then that is borrowed from another tradition, which I hate, by the way, because those singers put on a performance with tremolos in their voices as if they were giving a paying concert or something. It turns me off no end. The sermons are good, but the rest must make ordinary congregation members or even people with more limitations so inadequate. I would not feel welcome in such a church that doesn't consider its people's input good enough to be broadcast on the air.
Posted in: The Ability to Effect Positive Change
It's difficult for Canadians NOT to be aware of Presidential election campaigns south of the border. When you're a mouse in bed with an elephant, as PM Pierre Elliot Trudeau, the late father of our present prime minister, used to say; you have to always be aware of what the elephant is going to do next. But since I can't vote in that election there isn't much point in sending that letter.
Posted in: Build the Ramp for the People Who CAN Walk
When our congregation decided to build an elevator--ramps would have been even more costly because we would have needed one for outside, which was the easy part, and one for inside--we already had people in our congregation who were suffering from arthritis for whom climbing stairs was painful. It has proved to be a long-lasting investment even though we got the cheapest model available, or almost, and many men from the congregation did as much of the work as possible that did not require technical expertise. That is one way churches can cut down on expenses.
Posted in: Happy Dependence Day!
True. But when people talk about independence, I don't think that's what they mean. What the founders of your country meant by independence was that as a country the U.S.A. could make its own decisions without needing permission from the King of England, nor would it have to pay taxes to another country for its goods. Of course, we are all interdependent, and that is good and healthy, but the independence of nations from colonial regimes is another story.
Posted in: National Disability Voter Registration Week
Not me personally, but my mom did at one municipal election. She has angina, which is a form of heart disease, and she went to vote at an advance polling station that required a lot of walking one year, and when she got to the desk to vote she complained about having to walk all that distance, and the person in charge said she was taking note of the complaint. You see, a lot of the accommodations when they are made, are almost always only in terms of wheelchair-bound people, who are assumed to be able to wheel themselves around to any distance as long as they don't have to overcome the hurdle of steps or stairs, but people who have heart problems often find walking long distances very hard because they get out of breath easily. And that day, when my mom got back to the car after voting, she told my dad not to bother because it was too far, and he had even more difficulty walking than my mom. I can't think of the proper term right now but it has to do with the heart not pumping hard enough and fluid accumulating on the lungs. In Canada, we don't vote for everything at once. Federal, provincial and municipal elections are held separately, and municipal elections are governed by provincial laws, so they vary from one province to another. Then we also have to vote for school-board officials. However, we don't vote for judges or sheriffs or any law-enforcing officials. Judges are appointed by governments; police officers have to do a three-year professional junior college program (in Québec) after which they go to a police academy and are picked by municipal or provincial police corps upon graduation from said academy.
But what I want to emphasize here is that not all disabilities require the same accommodations, and what works for people in wheelchairs is not necessarily good for people with heart or respiratory problems. It's NOT a one size fits all.
Posted in: National Disability Voter Registration Week
I've worked as poll secretary in some provincial elections, and in cases like that the person who is blind can be accompanied by a friend or relative who will tell them the names of the candidates and what party they stand for. Usually, the candidates are listed in alphabetical order since that is neutral.
Posted in: Infant Baptism or Dedication: What Should We Consider?
For me this is not an issue at all, and I'm not aware that it is for our congregation either because the topic has never come up in congregational meetings that I can remember. I've never heard anyone complain that they could not dedicate their babies. What I have heard, however, is our former pastor saying that people who had been baptised in the Roman Catholic Church as infants asking if they could be baptised again because their first baptism meant nothing to them, and they were not sure of the faith of the priest who baptised them as babies, and he had to turn them away because he did not have the permission to do it. That we hear about here in Québec. But dedication...? Not really.
Posted in: Continuing the Mental Health Conversation
Oh, and by the way there will be two articles in the Spring issue of SZMAGAZINE due to appear on April 4th that I wrote. They only publish online now, but you can get a subscription for $50.00 that will allow you to print as many copies as you want. These subscriptions are mostly for organizations since they usually have the funds to afford that. One of them was already published on the CRC Network.
Posted in: Continuing the Mental Health Conversation
It appeared in May of last year, either the 19th or the 26th as a guest post.
Posted in: Oh, That Will Be Glory
That's nice, but for my part I look forward to not hearing voices anymore, and the problem with them is that you can hear them whether your hearing is good or not since they are a product of the brain and not something that comes from the outslde. I have a hearing impairment also but the only reason my voices no longer plague me as they used to is because I take medications to control them. For me heaven will mean being rid of schizophrenia for good. If you identify with your handicap to the point that you can't imagine being freed of it at the resurrection fine and dandy, but personally I can't wait to leave that in the grave. Or better yet, on my deathbed.