Signs of Emotional Abuse

Who is affected by emotional abuse?

Emotional abuse can take place:

• between parent and child
• between husband and wife
• among relatives
• between friends

Why do people emotionally abuse other individuals?

Bogdanos explains, “The abuser projects their words, attitudes or actions onto an unsuspecting victim usually because they themselves have not dealt with childhood wounds that are now causing them to harm others.”

The questions prepared by Bogdanos relate to the following categories of abusive behaviors:

• Humiliation, degradation, discounting, negating, judging, criticizing
• Domination, control, and shame
• Accusing and blaming, trivial and unreasonable demands or expectations, denies own shortcomings
• Emotional distancing and the “silent treatment,” isolation, emotional abandonment or neglect
• Codependence and enmeshment

Read Signs of Emotional Abuse to review the complete list of questions.

Power and control play a big part in emotional abuse.  An emotional abuser intentionally and repeatedly threatens or says harsh words to wear another person down. Once worn down, the victim will try to avoid hearing the threats or nasty words again by doing what the abuser asks. The result of emotional abuse is gaining power and control over another person.