Thank you for this; it is helpful to have this front-line perspective.
Thank you for the advice. How does this look, as a potential charge regarding confidentiality (wanting the congregation to be informed of the circumstances that would require confidentiality to be broken):
Elders and deacons, I charge you to keep in confidence the sensitive matters which congregants may share with you, only sharing with other leaders when needed to better care for those involved, and only reporting in circumstances involving evidence of a minor being neglected or abused, or of someone posing an immediate threat to themselves or to someone else.
Posted in: JWWM: Jesus Would Wear a Mask
Another perspective from IX Marks that emphasizes that it's a judgment call. I found this helpful.