If the purpose of excellent sermons are to address concerns, needs, and desires of a group of people such as a congregation, how can anyone set up a year's speaking agenda without having a substantial knowledge of his/her audience's lives? I believe the first order of things aught to be learning as much as possible about your congregation, then fashion sermons, bringing the Word of God to bear on the needs/desires/concerns of the congregation. I know all scripture is useful to teach, but your congregations are not faceless individuals, and like sponges absorb whatever is irrelevantly cast at them , all with the same issues. So, please, when fashioning any sermon, think about where your congregation sits, consider the experiences they may have had that may have encouraged, disappointed caused grief and joys of being counted among the elect.
May God bless you all in your calling, I know it may be difficult for many.
Couple of comments: first I don’t think stirring up the sinful quagmire of ecclesiastical struggles of the past is helpful in arguing a similarity to the current discussion. It seems an attempt obfuscate the clear teaching of scripture by making this comparison only helps in potentially splitting the already fragile conditions of the CRCNA.
Second, whether or not you or I, or the church decides a matter, will have no effect on my salvation. Let’s instead, have discussions the may effect our salvation, unifying instead of disunity.
Has the author considered that historical same value gifting, to the church for example, may be supplemented by giving to other worthwhile projects/organizations, thereby increasing gifting, but not to just one organization?
Sorry, you know the old saying, if you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen. We all have difficulty navigating through the life and career we've chosen. Hang in, it'll get better. It says so in scripture.
I think those are very good questions. Allow me to suggest that sometimes, as my late father in law once said, we see too many bears along the paths, meaning of course, we tend to perhaps worry about a lot of things that could go wrong. Somewhere we need to follow the Spirit's leading and dependent more on God's providence, that He will smooth the path when we first take a step. You could also "tag team" with another volunteer, so you're not in it alone.
As to the disillusionment, I think the number one remedy is a show of appreciation by those directly affected by your volunteerism. Thank you for the volunteer work that you do, God Bless
Am I correct by inferring that you suggest a new discussion, this time on the "process"? Me thinks this is a smoke screen to enhance a pre determined outcome. The powers that be are really asking, "does God really say......? In His Word. Do you really think that because your child has "come out" that God's clear intentions are not valid? I'm reminded of the scriptures where Jesus stated words "Anyone who love their father or mother more than me is not worthy of me;anyone who loves their son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. Matthew 10:37 NIV. Is that not what we're doing here? Because our children seek a path not consistent with scripture, and, because we love them, we want to change the plain meaning of scripture to suit how we feel about our children.
Please stop challenging scripture and concentrate more on our salvation, and end of our earthly life which will come soon enough.
Thanks Sean, for taking the time to reply to my comment. I think you can form you own interpretation re: the percentage notation. As to the " horse out of the barn", I think it's better to try to put the horse back into the barn, lest it come out to trample you.
Greats story, but it does little to help the youth (?) perpetrators. Reluctantly, I'll share a story with your readers. My wife and I were fostering children many years ago. One of our wards came to us at the age of two with an apparent issue of having been sexually abused or traumatized by a boyfriend to his mom. This boy would throw mega tantrums in awkward places, and at one time succeeded in pulling out a clump of hair out of my wife's head. As the boy grew older, 5 or 6, he began to display deviant sexual behaviour. I have to add, that I had given a piece of property to my daughter and her husband and they bore our first grandchild and lived next door. Justin (that was the boy's name, and he has since passed away because of an inherent heart disease at the age of 22) started to expose his genitals to our grand daughter, and, understandably my daughter was upset, and threatened to move away if we did not give up fostering Justin. We were forced into a very difficult decision. My wife and I reasoned that my granddaughter had every thing going for her, and Justin would have nothing. We decided we would continue fostering Justin, and my daughter moved away.
( I should pause here to explain that Justin had been placed in a adoptive home between the ages of 4 - 5, which broke down because of sexual misconduct at that very tender age and had been assessed by two different psychiatrists to be confined to an institution, and we were asked to take him back before the granddaughter incident, which we did)
Justin had incidents with church kids too, and the church folks were aware of Justin's bent. As Justin grew older, we took him many time to a psychiatric doctor and implored the psychiatrist to "fix" him ... to no avail. He began to break into our neighbors places and removed girls underwear etc. So, when he was 15, we, with of course Family and Children Services decided he needed to attend a sexual abuser remedial home, from which he was released at age 16, or 17. His time there was also useless in changing his behaviour. Sporadically we would be in touch with him, and learned he got in touch with his birth father and half sister in the U S where he was asked to babysit his young niece and nephew. Again that was the wrong thing for him to be doing, but, how could they know what he was like? Sadly, the last time I talked with him, he was crying, (he must have been 20, or 21. He said he didn't know where he belonged (he was born to a white woman by a First Nations father) I said to him to get involved with a church, and develop a relationship with a support group. So, what's the point of this story? Well, some children are born with a certain desire for what we call devious behaviour, and there's not much anyone can do about it. The same type of issues present in pedophilia and homosexuality in my humble opinion. What can be done? These kids/adults are stuck with their behaviour, and if they are church members, great, but their behaviour is not confined to churches, they will act the same outside the church.
so, your article presents a problem, but no answer, because there isn't a good answer.
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If the purpose of excellent sermons are to address concerns, needs, and desires of a group of people such as a congregation, how can anyone set up a year's speaking agenda without having a substantial knowledge of his/her audience's lives? I believe the first order of things aught to be learning as much as possible about your congregation, then fashion sermons, bringing the Word of God to bear on the needs/desires/concerns of the congregation. I know all scripture is useful to teach, but your congregations are not faceless individuals, and like sponges absorb whatever is irrelevantly cast at them , all with the same issues. So, please, when fashioning any sermon, think about where your congregation sits, consider the experiences they may have had that may have encouraged, disappointed caused grief and joys of being counted among the elect.
May God bless you all in your calling, I know it may be difficult for many.
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Couple of comments: first I don’t think stirring up the sinful quagmire of ecclesiastical struggles of the past is helpful in arguing a similarity to the current discussion. It seems an attempt obfuscate the clear teaching of scripture by making this comparison only helps in potentially splitting the already fragile conditions of the CRCNA.
Second, whether or not you or I, or the church decides a matter, will have no effect on my salvation. Let’s instead, have discussions the may effect our salvation, unifying instead of disunity.
Respectfully, Alex Krikke.
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Has the author considered that historical same value gifting, to the church for example, may be supplemented by giving to other worthwhile projects/organizations, thereby increasing gifting, but not to just one organization?
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Sorry, you know the old saying, if you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen. We all have difficulty navigating through the life and career we've chosen. Hang in, it'll get better. It says so in scripture.
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All of Scripture
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Sola Scriptura - selah
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Sola Scriptura - Amen
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I think those are very good questions. Allow me to suggest that sometimes, as my late father in law once said, we see too many bears along the paths, meaning of course, we tend to perhaps worry about a lot of things that could go wrong. Somewhere we need to follow the Spirit's leading and dependent more on God's providence, that He will smooth the path when we first take a step. You could also "tag team" with another volunteer, so you're not in it alone.
As to the disillusionment, I think the number one remedy is a show of appreciation by those directly affected by your volunteerism.
Thank you for the volunteer work that you do, God Bless
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Am I correct by inferring that you suggest a new discussion, this time on the "process"? Me thinks this is a smoke screen to enhance a pre determined outcome. The powers that be are really asking, "does God really say......? In His Word. Do you really think that because your child has "come out" that God's clear intentions are not valid?
I'm reminded of the scriptures where Jesus stated words "Anyone who love their father or mother more than me is not worthy of me;anyone who loves their son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. Matthew 10:37 NIV. Is that not what we're doing here? Because our children seek a path not consistent with scripture, and, because we love them, we want to change the plain meaning of scripture to suit how we feel about our children.
Please stop challenging scripture and concentrate more on our salvation, and end of our earthly life which will come soon enough.
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Thanks Sean, for taking the time to reply to my comment. I think you can form you own interpretation re: the percentage notation. As to the " horse out of the barn", I think it's better to try to put the horse back into the barn, lest it come out to trample you.
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Why can't the"10%" not take a cue from the "90%" and quit pushing this potentially divisive subject?
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Greats story, but it does little to help the youth (?) perpetrators. Reluctantly, I'll share a story with your readers. My wife and I were fostering children many years ago. One of our wards came to us at the age of two with an apparent issue of having been sexually abused or traumatized by a boyfriend to his mom. This boy would throw mega tantrums in awkward places, and at one time succeeded in pulling out a clump of hair out of my wife's head. As the boy grew older, 5 or 6, he began to display deviant sexual behaviour. I have to add, that I had given a piece of property to my daughter and her husband and they bore our first grandchild and lived next door. Justin (that was the boy's name, and he has since passed away because of an inherent heart disease at the age of 22) started to expose his genitals to our grand daughter, and, understandably my daughter was upset, and threatened to move away if we did not give up fostering Justin. We were forced into a very difficult decision. My wife and I reasoned that my granddaughter had every thing going for her, and Justin would have nothing. We decided we would continue fostering Justin, and my daughter moved away.
( I should pause here to explain that Justin had been placed in a adoptive home between the ages of 4 - 5, which broke down because of sexual misconduct at that very tender age and had been assessed by two different psychiatrists to be confined to an institution, and we were asked to take him back before the granddaughter incident, which we did)
Justin had incidents with church kids too, and the church folks were aware of Justin's bent. As Justin grew older, we took him many time to a psychiatric doctor and implored the psychiatrist to "fix" him ... to no avail. He began to break into our neighbors places and removed girls underwear etc. So, when he was 15, we, with of course Family and Children Services decided he needed to attend a sexual abuser remedial home, from which he was released at age 16, or 17. His time there was also useless in changing his behaviour. Sporadically we would be in touch with him, and learned he got in touch with his birth father and half sister in the U S where he was asked to babysit his young niece and nephew. Again that was the wrong thing for him to be doing, but, how could they know what he was like? Sadly, the last time I talked with him, he was crying, (he must have been 20, or 21. He said he didn't know where he belonged (he was born to a white woman by a First Nations father) I said to him to get involved with a church, and develop a relationship with a support group.
So, what's the point of this story? Well, some children are born with a certain desire for what we call devious behaviour, and there's not much anyone can do about it. The same type of issues present in pedophilia and homosexuality in my humble opinion. What can be done? These kids/adults are stuck with their behaviour, and if they are church members, great, but their behaviour is not confined to churches, they will act the same outside the church.
so, your article presents a problem, but no answer, because there isn't a good answer.