Mark Stephenson
After receiving an M.Div. degree, I served as pastor of two Christian Reformed churches for a total of 17 years. From 2006 through 2021, I was the Director of Disability Concerns for the Christian Reformed Church, and relish the close working relationship CRC Disability Concerns has with the Reformed Church in America Disability Concerns ministry. I have served as interim Director of the CRC's Offices of Race Relations and Social Justice since Feb 2020. My wife Bev and I have five living children, two daughters-in-law, and three grandchildren. Our oldest child, Nicole, was born extremely prematurely in the late 1980’s and lives joyfully with severe, multiple impairments. That label does not define her. She loves magazines, loves interacting with people, loves roller-coasters and wild amusement park rides, and she loves to worship and to pray with God’s people. In any group, she shares her own unique gifts.
Posted in: New Booklet out for Expectant Parents of Child with Down Syndrome
Steve, yes on both counts. Thanks for asking these clarifying questions. I changed that sentence in the blog to bring out both points.
Posted in: New Booklet out for Expectant Parents of Child with Down Syndrome
Wendy's concern about language is a good one. I'm sure Steve meant no offense. Helping people to learn to use appropriate language is one of the things we keep working on. For those who are interested in reading further, Kathie Snow has written a lot of good stuff about "people first" language (and much more about having an appropriate perspective about people with disabilities) on her web site: www.disabilityisnatural.com.
Posted in: Watch Out for Stereotypes
Update on Jeremy Lin: concerned about the degree and ways in which Jeremy Lin and Asians in general have been stereotyped with his recent notoriety, the Asian American Journalists Association has released guidelines for coverage. In addition, according to Fox News, an ESPN writer was fired and a commentator suspended for 30 days for using a particular racial slur about Lin. I suspect other writers and commentators will sit up and take notice, and a good thing too. The language we use about other people is not about being "politically correct," but about respect. As this is true for people of various ethnic backgrounds, so it is true of people with disabilities.
Posted in: Should Infanticide be Legal?
Benjamin and Doug, thanks for your comments. One would hope, as Benjamin argues, that articles like the JME article would sway people against abortion, seeing it as ending of the same human life that would happen if one waited till the child was born then killing her.
Doug, if you would like to see something about this in the Banner, I encourage you to send them a note as a News Tip or a Letter to the Editor.
Posted in: Should Infanticide be Legal?
My pleasure. It's helpful when you aren't interested in sending a letter to the editor but want to get in touch with the staff.
Posted in: New Booklet out for Expectant Parents of Child with Down Syndrome
Katrinia, thanks for sharing. That's one of our messages here at Disability Concerns: no one will be a burden for the rest of his life, but all people have gifts to share. Here's a great story about how the Lord used a young man who has Down syndrome to speak truth into the life of a businessman, "The Mouth of the Lord," by Gerry Koning who is a Christian Reformed minister.
Posted in: Focus on People Not Labels
Terry, interesting story. It's ironic that the program this "large-membership church" created to enhance their ministry got in the way of ministry. I wonder how many people with disabilities and family members of people with disabilities were involved in developing this program for "handling" the visitors who have disabilities. Mark
Posted in: Thoughtful Use & Non-Use of Technology
Whether or not people can read the slides also contributes to, or detracts from, effectiveness. Obviously, if slides are projected when the congregation is invited to stand, then a printed alternative needs to be provided for people who cannot stand. Also, text on the slide needs to be accessible for people with visual impairments. Dr. John Frank wrote some excellent guidelines for using technology in an accessible way.
Posted in: Robertson, Dementia, and Divorce
Michèle, the thing about disability, as you know well, is that it can come into anyone's life at any time. Life is so uncertain. that's why I'm thankful I can trust Bev's promises to me and Gods.
Posted in: Robertson, Dementia, and Divorce
Fronse, thanks for sharing. Your mother's love for your father is a beautiful expression of Christ's love for his church!
Posted in: Robertson, Dementia, and Divorce
I hope not either. If it does, I know that God will be with us.
Posted in: Drive-in Church Welcomes People with Disabilities
Verlyn, thanks for your faithful service in this unusual and important ministry. Blessings! Mark