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Justin, thanks for this excellent and humbling analysis. To your recommendations, I would add one more, "Listen intently and learn from brothers and sisters in Christ who are Black, Indigenous, and People of Color (BIPOC)." Although your overall statistic about membership loss in the CRC is true, it's not true across the board. The BIPOC and intercultural churches in our denomination are growing in numbers. It's high time for CRC people like me (a man of Dutch descent who grew up CRC) to listen to and learn from people of other cultures. These are the bright spots in the CRC. We cannot continue with business as usual, or do things as we have always done them. Several years ago, an interim pastor at my own congregation said in a sermon something like this, "There are lots of churches that want to return to their glory days of 50 years ago. They keep doing church as they have always done so that when the culture around them becomes as it was 50 years ago, then they'll be ready!" With that statement, he nailed the absurdity of refusing to change. We listened, and now have church staff from the US, Costa Rica, Mexico, and Columbia. Our congregation is even more culturally diverse. What is true of an individual church is also true of our denomination. Our way forward is to turn from, to repent of the ethnocentrism of the past so that we can move into a future that God has already prepared for us as envisioned in Revelation 7:9. 

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Cassie, I'm so thankful that God gave you this song and that you have shared it with the world. Every time I listen I worship. I appreciate that you move from the quiet place with Jesus, to worship with fellow Christians, to the call to love in all our lives, which includes self-sacrifice (count the cost) as we follow our self-sacrificing Lord.  

Ken, I have a child who was enrolled in Special Education from age 3 through age 26, and she benefited greatly from the services she received throughout those years. Through the course of all that contact with the special ed system, my wife felt called to become a special education teacher and has been teaching special education for over 20 years. I believe in the value of a free and appropriate public education for all students in America and thank God for the United States' IDEA act, passed under President Ford, which mandated that. 

I also believe in the power of hearing one another's stories. In fact, that's why Breaking Barriers was created nearly 40 years ago--to provide a forum for people to tell their stories that have disability as one element. The purpose of Breaking Barriers is not to be an academic journal with the attendant research and footnoting. The purpose is for readers to listen in as others tell their stories arising out of their experiences. You have decided that racial bias is not a factor in Al's story, but you never met Al nor know anything about his situation except the necessarily brief description that Dr. Watts gives. In her experience, she has seen frequent racial bias in education. She writes, "For Black students, there has been another reason: unconscious bias, which has led to placement in special education." Then she uses Al's experience as one illustration.

Looking at race as a factor in placement in special education is nuanced and complex. Since that's clearly of interest to you, I'm sure you know how to find the journal articles on that topic; there are many. For me, I appreciate being able to listen in to Dr. Watts as she tells the story of one student from her own perspective as a Black educator. Hearing her story, and others', helps expand my own horizons about the world and people's experiences in it--especially people's experiences that are different from my own. For me, listening in to others' stories is an important part of doing to others as I would have them do to me. 

Jodi, thanks for this. Our church had been buying presents and distributing them to families for years. After reading When Helping Hurts, we decided that it would be more just and affirming for families needing some extra help at this time of year to purchase gift cards for local grocery and department stores. The deacons decide which families receive them and how much. The cards provide families with the opportunity to choose for themselves what they need most, and provide parents with the dignity to give gifts to their kids that the parents themselves chose. 

Hi Don, thanks for your note. I'm one of the authors of this statement. You are right that violence should be condemned. I grieve for the families of police officers who were injured and died in the violence in recent days, and for business owners whose property was ransacked and stolen by people with a wide variety of motivations. Condemning violence is the main point of this statement, the violence of racism that has ransacked and stolen the lives of black and brown people in the United States and Canada for centuries. That's what we want to highlight. If you have the stomach for it, you can read the names of thousands of African Americans killed by police since 2013 in this list prepared by the World Communion of Reformed Churches. And indeed, your concluding statement is also our hope and prayer, that the church can be an instrument of God's healing. We provided suggested actions to assist God's people in moving toward that vision. 

Rev. Dr. Mika Edmondson got his Ph.D. from Calvin Seminary. He is an African American pastor at a Presbyterian Church in America and gave this address about the Black Lives Matter movement several years ago. According to him, it's not monolithic but is intentionally and self-consciously decentralized to allow for a wide diversity of opinions on many matters but rallying around the emphasis that, in a world in which the lives and bodies of black people often have not mattered, those lives do indeed matter as much as the lives and bodies of every other person. 

Michele, thanks for your comment. Yes, David writes from within an American context, but we're hoping much of his advice will apply in Canadian contexts too. And Mental Health First Aid, QPR, and ASIST are all international organizations. 

Hi Harold, I have appreciated all your work in disability advocacy over the years. It's hard work and slow-going. I hear your frustration. People can quickly grasp why an elevator or ramp may be necessary for physical accessibility, though sometimes will balk at making changes to a church building or spending a lot of money to make these changes. But changing buildings is easy compared to changing attitudes. Attitudes change much more slowly for at least a couple reasons. None of us are fully aware of our own underlying assumptions about people who live with disabilities and mental illnesses. It's hard to change a prejudice if you are not even aware of the prejudice. In addition, as we become aware of prejudices, we may rationalize that these prejudices are justified and appropriate, then cling to them. I'm not trying to justify the slow pace of change or resistance that you have experienced. But people can and do change. I've seen it. I believe there is hope, and the hard work of advocacy you have done over the years is bearing fruit and will continue to do so. 

Joyce, thanks for sharing additional resources. 

Diane, what a loving service your congregation does for hurting people in your congregation and community. Because you do this every year, you may have developed some resources as a congregation. If you have, would you like to share them so that others can benefit from your work?

Michele, yes, with regard to suicide, a gracious Christian community can be a powerful healing presence. I appreciate the article you sent me via email: Striking differences in rates of suicide attempts between provinces revealed in mental health findings. I didn't realize that teens and young adults have highest rates of suicide attempts, and yet have the most difficulty getting mental health care. Here too, the church can play a critical, healing role. A friend who has lived with depression and who attempted suicide told me that she told her story recently to her church youth group. She said that the young people were not only attentive, but really benefitted from her dispelling some of the stigma of mental illness by her talking so openly about her own journey. 

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