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I appreciate both of your observations and reflections on this post. I agree that preaching the Word is very important to faith formation and it is central to worship. I also agree that careful preparation is needed to faithfully preaching God's Word. It is something exciting and also terrifying to do each Sunday (for some, twice a Sunday). It is a great responsibility to correctly and faithfully preach His word. Yet ministry isn't about just that. It is part of it but not the only part of it. Reading through the Gospels, yes, Jesus took time away from people. He didn't take time to prepare his sermon on the mount though. He took time to pray, he took time to connect with The Father, he took time to rest. Reading through the Gospels, Jesus was about people. He was about the sinners, the tax collectors, those on the fringes. He even calls the pharisees to repentance and invites them into the kingdom.

I find that the word "balance" is tossed around as an excuse to hide away rather than engage; to evade rather than encounter. Reading the Gospels, Jesus lived rhythm not balance. He lived in a rhythm of doing God's work and then rest and prayer (for example, he went to pray before and after important events in the book of Mark). He had a rhythm of work and rest. You're welcome to check out my blog where I look more into this subject of work and rhythm here http://spiritualmusclehead.wordpress.com/2014/06/16/coffee-rest-and-work/ here http://spiritualmusclehead.wordpress.com/2013/11/14/sweet-hour-of-prayer/ here http://spiritualmusclehead.wordpress.com/2011/12/14/the-art-of-not-doing/ here http://spiritualmusclehead.wordpress.com/2012/10/30/the-art-of-silence/ and here http://spiritualmusclehead.wordpress.com/2013/07/23/be-still-2/

Rhythm is important to doing ministry. God created the world in 6 days and rested on the 7th, not because he had to because he was tired but because he knew rhythm. Jesus lived this rhythm, not balance. Engaging people helps me engage God's word. If I do not know what someone is going through, how I can faithfully speak God's word to them, allowing the Spirit to move in their hearts?

Thank you again for your comments and observations and thoughts. May God bless you in doing his kingdom work

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Ha! I'm guessing you saw my post blog post "bow ties are cool" I wore it Sunday night just to see what reaction I got. People shook my hand, looked at my shirt, saw no regular tie, then looked up, saw a bow tie and then kept walking. Some smiled some looked perplexed. Might try it again Sunday PM again. Just something different.

Any other thoughts out there?

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I must admit, I've never thought about wearing a pink suit. I have a very nice lavendar shirt and tie combo I wore for easter :)

I do agree, geeky is in. Just wish there were more who caught the homage to the 11th doctor... in time, in time.

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Joshua Benton on July 14, 2011

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John...

Last time I tried posting the link they said that it was considered spam. So I'll try it again. Click here.

Josh

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Jonathan...

I might just have to do that. Wish there were more Dr. Who fans out there who'd get why I thought of it in the first place.

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Jonathan...

Week 2 with the bow tie. People noticed. I received remarks such as "cute" "Something different" "It looks good." "you tied that yourself?" Some from church read my blog post and so were looking for the bow tie this time around. Some didn't even realize I was wearing a bow tie.

Debating if I should switch to a regular tie next Sunday PM and see if others notice and what remarks might come.

It is different to wear a bow tie though my wife still says the look dorky. I like what Dr. Who says 'Bow ties are cool."

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Joshua Benton on July 21, 2011

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Shorts and flip flops sound nice to preach in. Though for now, I'd even settle for kahkis and a polo. For some reason though, bow ties just seem kinda fun and I do enjoy being able to have it be a secret reference to the 11th Doctor of Doctor Who.

I recently asked my council to set up an executive committee to do an annual evaluation of myself and eventually of all staff at the church. Feedback has been good and positive. It also has opened up conversation with leadership that has helped us grow in understanding of strenghts and weaknesses of our overal church ministry. Good, solid, Goldy feedback is important. There is a need to put into place guards to the evaluation process that keeps those who just want to complain and nitpick at bay.

Joshua Benton on April 19, 2010

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Mark...
I'm right there with you. I cut my teeth preaching in a nursing home with people in different stages of dementia and Alzheimer's disease. They would respond in different ways to the sermon. Some wouldn't respond at all. But within the first three notes of an old hymn it was like a choir singing. Only the family members seemed to use the song books. The two songs that they knew almost every word to was "Blessed Assurance" and "Leaning on the Everlasting Arms" which was almost fitting. They may not have heard or understood anything I said, but the congregation of the Lord Jesus Christ praised His name in song.

As for having a solid hymnody that can carry on, I think there are some praise songs from the 70's and early 80's that are starting to get to that point such as "Lord I lift your name on high" and I think Hillsong's "Shine Jesus Shine" is getting there as well. But I think there is also a need to re-introduce the older hymns in a way that is fresh and able to interact with the upcoming generation of leaders who will one day pass along the hymnody to their next group of leaders.

Joshua Benton on November 30, 2011

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Kathy...

I agree with you on that point. My father-in-law helped consolidate three churches in the South Chicago Suburbs back in 05. One church was without a pastor and the other two churches had a pastor. Once the churches consolidated, the two pastors (my father-in-law being one of them) both stepped down in order for the churches to merge together more seamlessly. This technically is an article 17. But it was for a good reason as well.

Joshua Benton on December 2, 2011

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Dr. DeMoorm ...

Looking over Art 17, one of the "flags" that strikes me is the language of "weighty reasons". Is it possible for Synod to admend that to being "weighty and non-weighty" reasons.

Or would it work to add a new subpoint?These wold then encompas what you wrote for situations such as "stating in straightforward terms why the separation is sought: like "entering a Th.M. program longer than what the congregation can afford to give in terms of sabbatical," or "the council believes that a change is needed after x number of years in order to enliven the ministry to the congregation: or "spouse has received a ministry position in another province or state," etc." Other reasons for Art 17 would be for life situational changes that aren't so weighty as they are just a need for change, as you afor mentioned. Could this be a new subpoint "e"? I know that this would take an overture to Syond. Or, would it be better to have a new article all together?

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