Bev Sterk
I grew up in the CRC, and am still here, along with my family. I'm married to Daryl, who has a construction business. I had a CPA license for 10 or so years, then I added EX to the front, and MOM to the back, so now I'm an EX CPA, MOM =). I am MOM to Duncan, Ian and Samantha. Our family also owns a raspberry farm, and in the summers we get to work out there together.
Posted in: What Exactly is High Praise?
Hi David, so sorry to hear about your health struggles. Thankful to hear that you are still dancing before the Lord, despite the suffering you have experienced! I love your testimony!
Thank you for sharing how God is continuing to minister to you in this way, to help you grow in understanding of worship and praise. Worship is a rich word, that includes so many different ways that we worship our Creator, our Lord and Savior!! Praise is one of those ways, but not the only way... every breath, every thought, every action is meant to be part of our worship.
There are so many levels, dynamics in the wide spectrum of expressions that we have been given to worship our Holy God! from solemn reverence to exuberant joyful praise and everything in between. There is a time and place for each expression.
You are His precious and priceless son, dearly loved! He delights in you! The Lord bless you and keep you, the Lord shine His face upon you and give you His peace and grace, now and forever, in Jesus precious name!
PS. Yes, I did follow the Asbury revival! beautiful, powerful outpouring of the Holy Spirit, especially on behalf of Gen Z...
Posted in: An Anthem for Black Friday
Since 2008, I've been praying into "God's economy", which i think will look a lot different than what we are seeing in our culture, even our "Church" culture. I encourage you all to pray asking Him to show you His ecomony. I think it would be amazing to share insights rec'd through the Holy Spirit and put the pieces together that He might give to different people in His body, for what He intended for His economy. I believe one of the scriptural insights is Malachi 3:10-12. Our family has experienced this many times over, where we have been gifted with far more than we need! We're not buying it! "stuff"/food just pours in from people/friends/family giving and we do not have enough room to hold it (which is another discussion).
An interesting "fast" that I had several years ago, was a buying fast, where for an extended time, i would only buy basics, food, gifts for others and 1 book/month that would feed the soul (now for some of us, the book realm might be where we need to fast =). Only my husband knew about the "fast" at the time.
Anyway, the second day of the fast, my sister brought me 2 bags of her clothes, that she didn't fit in. I'm still wearing them, even though some have holes now, so i call them my holy pants, because they represent a shift in our family's spending and giving.
Then a few days later, a sister in law brought 4 bags of kids clothes. I saw these "gifts" as confirmations of the fast. There were other confirmations as well, and i would have to go find my journal, because I don't remember them all.
Ok, I'll share some ideas from an email we rec'd, encouraging us to think about how we can "invest" our $ a little more locally over this Christmas giving season, with tomorrow being support local, small business day.
Give gift certificates for: hair cuts, lawn mowing, house cleaning, vehicle detailing, or oil change, golfing, gym membership, locally owned restaurants or coffe shops, computer repairs, local theatre or bands, local high school sports, plays or other activities, locally grown flower baskets, local garden businesses and landscapers. these are just a few ideas that will support business right in our communities.
Add your own thoughts. I'm sure we could have some very creative Spirit led ideas. One suggestion I will share would be to hire a house cleaner for someone (maybe your wife =). I know a lot of moms, that this is the extra they make so they can keep their kids at Christian school. (i see this idea is mentioned in the email) and one more thought, support your grandkids with Christian school tuition =)... now that's investing.
I am not anti-walmart, God has giving me some beautiful insights/epiphanies there, so I'm not sure what that means about His economic view on Walmart ;), but He has had me in tears with thoughts He has shared while I was shopping there - and that's an entire discussion again.
I believe we (America - including Canada) are blessed so we can bless others. I think that was one of the concepts we had mostly missed prior to 2008. so with tithing/contributions at about an average of 2-3% of income, somewhere i read this was true for Christians as well, we have some work to do =). So I encourage us all to think about how we are investing our resources for Kingdom purposes.
This is reminding me also of the book "Crazy Love" by Francis Chan, and he challenges us/Americans to live the Acts 2:42-47 way. So what would that look like for us today? Is it possible? Is that part of God's economic plan for us still? =)
I encourage you all to share some stories/testimonies of how God has worked in your life when you did "economic"/financial things God's way, instead of leaning on our own understanding. I will share some more of ours, if you share some of yours!
Posted in: What Exactly is High Praise?
David, it's actually 9 years later... this was originally posted in 2012, then this website re did some updating and somehow it was updated in 2017...
I continue to grow in understanding and expressing "high praise" along with the many physical expressions of praise based on the Hebrew words used... the "high" praise is a concept that has not been a part of my tradition's language regarding worship...
Posted in: What Exactly is High Praise?
Hi David, hope you and your family are doing well! Sorry I never responded to your beautiful testimony that you shared several years ago, but I was reading through the responses today and trust God's timing!
Remember who you are because of Who He is! You are His precious and priceless child, a child of the King! You are a new creation in Christ, you are a temple of His Holy Spirit!
and you are blessed!
You Are Precious and Priceless | CRC Network
We Are Blessed | CRC Network
Posted in: An Anthem for Black Friday
Hey Ken... good to see you back on here... thanks for pointing us back to the basics of loving God 1st, and then neighbors. Amen, Amen!
I loved Doug's comment that he was "richer" for staying, and obviously not referring to his portfolio value, but richer in relational love for his neighbors and richer in experience (I'm thinking in trusting God and His ways is part of that), and in being obedient to God's call for his family. That's God's economy. It's eternal treasure.
I think what Doug shared is one way Acts 2:42-47 looks in today's culture.
I also had to think about going against everyone's advice some more. I got a kick out of it because it is going against conventional "wisdom", and it made sense in a higher than the heavens God way (Is.55). But it was also interesting and unusual because generally (but not always) the Holy Spirit will confirm significant decisions like that through other (generally Spirit led, but not always the case) people. So as I'm studying guidance by the Holy Spirit, and His ways of confirmation, I will admit that that is unusual, and I'm glad you felt compelled enough to follow through. I am curious about the process of your decision 10 years ago as well. that fascinates me! That helps me understand how the Holy Spirit "prompts"/guides us in many different ways. I know what I've experienced, but i enjoy hearing and learn from listening to the "process" others went through as well. Again, the 2008 timing is very interesting to me as well!
I know each of these specific testimonies are not what everyone or even many are called to, but I hope that by sharing them, it will inspire other believers to take that step of faith, whatever it might look like in their life that the Spirit is putting on their heart at this time, and these stories and God's goodness through them, will encourage whomever it might be, to possibly be a little more (do i dare say) "radical" about their faith and lifestyle. =). To go beyond human wisdom, man's understanding (Prov. 3:5-6) and walk in step with His Spirit, to follow that prompting that you are pretty sure is from the LORD!
Posted in: What Exactly is High Praise?
Also curious David, what was prompting you to research "high" praise?
Posted in: On the Potter’s Wheel
Worship is primarily about God, but because He's a generous and loving God, He makes it about us too. He longs to bless us when we spend time with Him. He ministers to our hearts through music, sermons, prayers, people... I have found when I've gone into worship with no agenda of my own, other than to praise Him and be open to what's on His heart, He will bless my heart many times over.
I do look forward to worship with Him, because He often will give insight or confirmation or encouragement, but that's not the primary purpose. It's primarily for His glory, but because He's God, it will also be for our good, that's His promise and we can bank on it! I love 2 Chron 20. The people starting praising God, and He responded by orchestrating an ambush between the enemy, and the enemy killed each other instead of the people of Judah. Yep, He often/always will bless His people when we worship Him. Will we always realize it? that's another question =) I do often joke that sometimes at church I'm praising Him with one hand and "threatening" my kids with the other =).
I don't know if I've said it here on the network, but God can use any song, any style to minister to us if He wants, it can be 1000 years old or just minutes old, it can be spiritual or secular. I remember in 2006, i was at a women of faith conference and had a "bad" attitude about the concert that was suppose to be at the end. God didn't let me keep that attitude for very long and would not let me worship Him with it, because it wasn't even one minute into the concert (so no emotional manipulation through music) and He melted me, I was undone! and basically what the "lesson" was, is "don't limit Me, I can use anything, anytime to minister to you". That encounter was so deep and powerful, that up to a year later, whenever I heard the songs that were played there, on the radio, tears would immediately begin.
and one other "side effect" of worship, is it's a weapon that brings down the enemy and his strongholds (Ps. 149:6-7; Ps. 8:2, 2 Cor. 10:4) again, not a primary reason we worship and praise, but encouraging to know!
Posted in: New Year's Resolution - Seek God's Face
I know many believers and congregations that start each year with a fast. It is amazing the difference this "discipline" can make in "listening" to God and being sensitive to His leading throughout the year. I would encourage anyone who might be sensing the LORD putting this on their heart or who desire a deeper relationship with Him to look into it further. I will simply say after the LORD put fasting on my heart a few years ago, it has now become a lifestyle.
http://www.jentezenfranklin.org/fasting/
Posted in: Over-Committed Seeks Sabbath
hmmm... great thoughts... Spirit's a stirring and making us think about what's eternal/important, and what's not.
During my prayer time this morning, prompted by Karl W's thoughts on spiritual discernment at ecclesiastical assemblies in the classis discussion forum, I was thinking about the many board and committee meetings I've been at, that are 95% business/corporate like focus with Robert and his rules governing the structure (do I dare say, maybe sometimes in place of the Holy Spirit?? and makes me wonder if we are much more comfortable with Robert than the Holy Spirit), bookended by prayers. and the thought was, we're in a rut. I've often thought we're kind of stuck as a denomination for whatever reason, but had never had the word rut connected to it. as Melissa stated, stuck in a routine, which confirms the thought I had this morning.
I really think the LORD is working on converting us from "Miss Marthas" to Miss Marys", by us spending more time in His Presence, seeking His leading and guiding and then carrying out whatever it is He puts on our hearts during that time. I have found, that when I am in this "rhythm" with Him, that when I do have to get the "Miss Martha" work done, it is far more effective and flows much smoother, with unbelievable statistical probabilities of timing that can only be Divine. and it is far more enjoyable =), a delight, not a duty, always a bonus when doing Kingdom work =) !
Someone just shared the book Having a Mary Heart in a Martha World, with me... haven't read it yet, but looking forward to it =) !!
Yep, our culture (& the dutch do too) values a hard working, driven, dynamic person, that gets the job done. The ones who keep their homes (& cars) immaculate, bring the best dishes to potlucks, as well as sing in the choir, play 5 instruments and can shoot a pretty mean hoop as well ( and probably run marathons too)! Of course, I'm being a bit snarky! But our time/relationship with Jesus is sometimes/often viewed as "wasting" time and not valued.
anyway, the Rob bell quote reminded me of this scripture...
Gal. 1:10 (NKJV) For do I now persuade men, or God? Or do I seek to please men? For if I still pleased men, I would not be a bondservant of Christ.
I hope that we are able to do more than just talk about some changes, and we will be able to move forward with a fresh vitality. As Clarence Vos stated at the end of his article in the Nov. Banner (p38) boq It would seem the need of the hour is prayer, openness to the Spirit's leading, and an expectation that in the end our Christian faith will be more vital than ever! eoq
and to that I say AMEN!!
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Posted in: Next Steps for Me...and for The Network
I really appreciate the network, and the opportunity to share and sharpen ideas/test thoughts that might be from the LORD, or whatever might be on your heart, with other believers that come from a similar perspective (mainly reformed)...
I have to laugh, last fall, about this time, I mentioned to a crc leader in the area, that I had some concerns about our denomination, and some of our position statements, etc. The response was basically, no one locally cares (i'm in the pnw), and it won't make any difference at the denominational level. So i thought, well LORD, I know I won't make a difference on my own, but I know You can, and You can use me if You want to.
When I first learned about the network in Febr. this year, I joined. I have been blessed by the many thoughtful, honest posts, seeking God's way of doing His Church. I have been encouraged by the expression of others, seeking better understanding of what it means to listen to and be led by the Holy Spirit. I have seen answers to prayers, that i believe the LORD put on my heart about His Church, and seeing posts that start to bring up some of the concepts. Other posts give insight on how to pray on behalf of His Bride, and some specifically for the crc denomination.
I too wish more people would share their thoughts here, and I encourage everyone to do so, because that helps the Body/Bride of Christ work together better for the common good, and we are much healthier.
Posted in: Drama Queen
Got a good chuckle out of your intro...
great points, worth a lot more discussion...
definitely agree with the quiet shift of resources to more local ministries. I know we (my husband and I) feel the tension when our church's ministry shares are short, but we feel led to support the local prayer ministry I'm involved with instead.
Posted in: The Long Prayer
I'm with you Colin, that our long prayer is too short... I'm sorry but if we consider 2 minutes a long prayer, we're in trouble... sorry, another pet peeve of mine is when we will have a minute or so of silent prayer and it's 10, maybe 15 seconds... dang, it takes more time than that (usually a lot more) to be still and quiet our souls...
it's already next to impossible to convince people that we should be praying corporately together in addition to the Sunday svc. I've heard so many excuses, one excuse I've heard, is it's easier to let someone else pray... argh!!! this one is sad and funny... they weren't sure if God heard them when they prayed in Dutch... of course He does... if He can understand praying in tongues, Dutch is a piece of cake... oh, wait, did I mention praying in tongues on a CRC forum... oops! That one people are really uncomfortable with... even if it's not done corporately...
We have almost completely lost corporate prayer... it's "Our Father", it's teach US how to pray, they were praying in one accord, NT prayer was often in a communal context (Acts 1:14; 4:24).. even the prayer "closet" in the KJV times (1600's), was the kings and queens sitting room off their chamber that was used as a gathering place with their closest friends and family, it was not our modern day concept of our closets...
crying while we're praying... in the CRC?!?! Praise God... it might not be pretty, but it's powerful, those tears are powerful prayers... Jesus prayed with tears... it's called travail, don't know that I've seen it too often in the CRC... and yes, it does make us uncomfortable, because we aren't used to it. LORD, multiply the tears in prayer on behalf of the hurting and wounded... in fact, a few days ago, I just listened to the late David Wilkersons "A call to anguish"... let's see if I can find the link again..it's about 7 minutes.
http://video.christianpost.com/a-call-to-anguish-by-david-wilkerson-2506/
I'm sure the scriptures mention the concept of crying out to God" several times... pretty sure it was usually King David, who was a man after God's heart...
here's a powerful testimony by Keith Green...about 1:50 in he shares on when he wrote Oh LORD, You're beautiful... and how he was feeling cold and distant in his relationship, and so God "told" him..."cry", and Keith said I can't or don't feel like cyring... God "said" "I'll wait"... the result is this amazing song... this video doesn't have all the verses, so I encourage you to check out all the verses...
www.youtube.com/watch?v=Di4Pw93fKv8&feature=player_embedded
my prayer is that instead of people saying "I'll pray for you", they will pray for that person right on the spot, whether it's over the phone or in the back of church, or in the grocery store, or at the park, or wherever it comes up... my prayer is that we'll be praying and worshipping 24/7... just like in the temple of David...
but back to corporate prayer... we somehow have gotten significantly out of balance between private and corporate prayer... they are both equally important... I apologize if my frustration with our lack of enthusiasm for corporate prayer is coming through with snarky remarks... hehehehe =)
btw, Colin... are you going to be able to make it to the prayer summit next week... and was the young adult, Rudy's son, and if so how long ago was this? (I met Rudy at the prayer summit at the Firs in B'ham last yearish). thx. Bev S (Susan Dotinga's niece from Lynden)